Starting as a young
professional, I wanted nice things for myself. I wanted a lot of them. When I
started living alone more than a decade back, I bought stuff to fill and
decorate my studio unit. I bought a set of knives: I've got one for meat, for
vegetables, for peeling, for dicing. (I don't
even like sharp objects! They scare me!) bought a set of plates. I
bought wine glasses. I even had my rags color coded. I had a specific stuff for
a specific stuff. As you might've already predicted, I was able to use them
probably four times in a span of more than a decade. I piled up on stuff I
thought I needed but didn't.
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I sank into
depression a few years back. My anxiety attacks came in frequently. And let me
tell you, one of the things that help me overcame my anxiety is by letting go
of things that don't serve me anymore. Literally and figuratively, slowly
letting go of stuff is one of the best things (aside from being vegan) that I
did for myself. As I chose minimalism as a lifestyle, I slowly felt I was
having more mental space for the things that really matter. I was able to
lessen my spending. I was also able to manage my lifestyle in an uncomplicated
manner.
Minimalism is good
for your mental health. Each of the thing you possess is a mental
representation of something you carry in your head. A lot of times, in my case,
I compensate my loneliness for buying things I would need for when I have
visitors. Most often, I bought stuff to make sure I had something to entertain
my guests with. As you might've predicted as well, I seldom had visitors.
When I started
embracing minimalism, I also found myself becoming more disciplined in choosing
what I need. I started giving away (or selling) some of my stuff. I realized
many of the things I bought I didn't even remember buying or why I even bought
them. The things I bought for a specific purpose never really fulfilled their
purpose. I mean seriously, who lives alone and needs five knives? I could just
imagine how I could've maximized saving by not spending a lot.
I also experience
that it's easier to own just a few useful stuff. I like being able to manage my
stuff easily. I realize I didn't need fifty undergarments. I didn't need over a
hundred pieces of shirts. I didn't need more than ten pairs of shoes. It took a
lot of my time thinking about what I would be wearing on a daily basis. Thing
is people didn't even notice.
I now understand why
Mark Zuckerberg wears the same combination everyday! I get to focus my energy
on more important stuff rather than compensating with my insecurity through
what I wear or trying to impress others.
If there's one thing
I'd like to have more of, it's a fat savings account and choosing minimalism is
allowing me to do that bit by bit. Embrace minimalism and enjoy having more
mental space, curbing your bad spending habits, and managing your lifestyle.

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